What men and women want from a relationship?

A woman wants a deep relationship with a man who understands and accepts her and her feelings. She wants more intimacy, affection, commitment, companionship and respect. She wants help in resolving relationship conflicts. She want him to express his feelings particularly about her more often. She wants her man to be romantic. And she want good, satisfying lovemaking. That means sex within a loving, committed and intimate relationship with a strong, yet sensitive man.

A man wants to love and to be love but in different ways form women. Men are most comfortable expressing love through sex, through shared activities, through being a provider and through just being together. They want women to accept these actions as love. A man feels frustrated when a woman doesn't perceive his version of love as 'real love' or 'good enough', when she puts romance ahead of sex.

Afterplay

After-play is what turns a good sexual encounter into one neither for you will ever forget. So don't sell yourselves shot, guys. Don't roll over, fall asleep or race for a shower, a snack or a taxi. Don't cheat yourselves out of this gentle pleasure. Say something nice to her, listen to her say something nice to you. Stroke her, hold her, flatter her.

Why not? Even climaxing together isn't as personal and intimate and human as sharing each other's feeling after desire has been spent. Hardly any woman takes sex lightly. Even promiscuous girls, especially them are hoping with all their hearts for love. They are investing a wealth of dreams and fantasies in sex with you. Of course, not every encounter ca be the start of something big who knows that better than you, gentlemen?

No matter how brief, how unplanned, how ill-advised or even illicit, every time you make love you are involving another human being with a full set of emotions and insecurities, one who is worthy of respect. To lead her on with false promises is beneath contempt. If you consider yourself more than just another greedy slob and if you deserve the tile of lover, then do make that telephone call she is certainly waiting for tech next day, send her flowers or at the very least write her a toe to tell her she's terrific and you'll never forget her. Because when the love making is all over, it's up to you to make sure she can look back on your time together with pride and that you can too.

Loving making for woman

Women adores the intimacy the delight of being touched, the loving word, the glow of passion and the security being held. She thrills in the pleasure you take in her, too and in being joined with you physically as he feels herself to be spiritually.

Ont the other hand, if or when she gets fed up, sad or resentful about inability to reach orgasm, you will only know about ti if she trusts you enough to tell. If that occurs, she is paying you the great compliment of her confidence. Return that compliment and do not think in terms of failure, hers or yours. See her orgasm as a bonus to work toward together with loving patient.

Lovemaking for a woman involves heart, mind and body. During her climax she does not ejaculate the way man do. Instead, it's as though the elements of excitement remain glowing within other and she comes down slowly.

Woman and orgasm

The trick to understanding our partner when it comes to orgasms, as in all matters pertaining to sex, is never to forget that she is like all other women only insofar as you are like other men. In important ways, therefore she is unique.

The mind is the primary sex organ, so when making love, try to penetrate hers. You may discover she is one of the many women who do not find orgasms essential to her satisfaction. If so, she has a sensation time with you whether she come or not.

Women and orgasm

You've no doubt noticed how much female sexual desire fluctuates in the course of her monthly cycle. By the way, some women are wild for sex during their menstrual period, so don't be too sure she's off limits then. Sometimes, a few sexy, well-chosen words will do more to make cool embers glow than pleading, nagging or sulking.

While it's true that some women do have multiple orgasms (or at least they reach many high peaks before they go over), an estimated one third of women never experience orgasms during intercourse. Another third do so only occasionally (probably during foreplay, and there are quite a few who have never had an orgasm, not even from masturbating.

Why women fake orgasm?

Men are reputed to have logical brains, right? So obviously you've already noticed that these statistics indicate two things about female sexuality.
1. Whoever she is, she must have faked it on occasion.
2. This indicates that perhaps orgasms don't play quite the same urgent role in her sex life as they do in yours.

If you saw 'When Harry met Sally', you know how brilliantly a woman can fake an orgasm. But more important than how she fakes it is why she fakes it. Well, first of all, there's a genuine kind of release indicating out a climax, similar to the way you can get a charge out of watching your team score a point without racing out onto the field and scoring one yourself. Also, she knows that for you a sex act is incomplete unless it leads to an orgasm, and if she fails to have one, you may think you've failed to give it to her. In other words, she fakes to spare your feelings.

Yes, it has been known for her to fake an orgasm because she's dead tired and knows you won't give up until you think she's had one. Or maybe she feels somehow ashamed of her inability to have one genuinely. Finally, she may pretend because she's afraid that if she doesn't make yo think you're the greatest, you'll leave and find some other girl who does.

What men still don't know about SEX! -Part 2

There is an argument, however, that to do this risks stripping them of their magic. As a general rule, men find depictions of sexual acts arousing and women get off on words. So when you two get to that lovely point of trust where fantasies can be exchanged remember that a few spicy suggestions whispered into her ear will add to her excitement.

You're also not the only ones to masturbate. most women do it, even when their sex lives are going great. women tend to masturbate to scenarios of their own invention, while you guys prefer to use something material, generally porn videos or magazines. but unless your partner likes porn too, and can share it with you, be careful about keeping it around. Chances are, if she comes across it in your closet or under the bed, she will feel extremely threatened and take it as evidence that she's not enough for you. After all, when she masturbates especially if yours is a passionate, new relationship - the image she probably has in mind is of you.

Also, there's always the likelihood that she is insecure about her desirability and obsessed by what she imagines to be her physical defects- those little blemished and imperfection so that are simply airbrushed out in your videos and magazines. And finally, whenever she thinks, she may not emotionally accept the ability you men have to separate sex from romantic love in a manner not many women share.

Sexy check-up!

Wouldn't you like to know if he's a red-hot lover in bed? And whether you have a high sex drive too? Find out by studying facial features and body parts.

People looking for the perfect partner have a whole body of evidence to consider. Experts say physical characteristics such as the size and shape of hands, feet and head reveal a person's sexual prowess and personality.

Men with big feet are well endowed, large teeth are a sign of vanity,snub noses belong to romantics and those with ring fingers much lo9nger than their index fingers have huge sex drives.

Men whose hands were identical had higher than average sperm co9unts, according to a report in New Scientist magazine. But it was very low in men with one hand at least 4mm longer than the other. Women with a large difference in size between index and ring fingers are more fertile.

Sex and Teens Pregnancy

When Jamie Spears admitted that she is pregnant, everybody was shocked and just couldn't understand how at such a young tender age, can she become a good parent to the baby. Every parent's are discussing this hot topic with their children especially parents whose children are a fan of hers. What sort of a role model will she create for these kids. So the question is when is the right time to discuss the topic of sex with our teenagers. How should parents do this freely and without embarrassment. What should the approach be? What should we say and what sort of attitudes should we try to create in them?

To be realistic, young people are going to experiment with sex. They always have and they always will. It's silly to pretend that they won't. And up to a point, such experimentation does no harm. It's only when it passes the point of no return. The point where complete sex relation so become inevitable or actual that the parents and society in general have deep and valid cause for alarm.

Next, it's worth reminding yourself that youngsters are always in a state of rebellion. Each generation has to break away from the preceding generation, find itself, establish its won way of doing things and looking at things. We did this in our own youth. Our children's children will do it to theirs.

Will it helps to tell a youngster that you are aware of his resistance to rules and you understand it because it's perfectly natural and all of us have our share of it.