Afterplay

After-play is what turns a good sexual encounter into one neither for you will ever forget. So don't sell yourselves shot, guys. Don't roll over, fall asleep or race for a shower, a snack or a taxi. Don't cheat yourselves out of this gentle pleasure. Say something nice to her, listen to her say something nice to you. Stroke her, hold her, flatter her.

Why not? Even climaxing together isn't as personal and intimate and human as sharing each other's feeling after desire has been spent. Hardly any woman takes sex lightly. Even promiscuous girls, especially them are hoping with all their hearts for love. They are investing a wealth of dreams and fantasies in sex with you. Of course, not every encounter ca be the start of something big who knows that better than you, gentlemen?

No matter how brief, how unplanned, how ill-advised or even illicit, every time you make love you are involving another human being with a full set of emotions and insecurities, one who is worthy of respect. To lead her on with false promises is beneath contempt. If you consider yourself more than just another greedy slob and if you deserve the tile of lover, then do make that telephone call she is certainly waiting for tech next day, send her flowers or at the very least write her a toe to tell her she's terrific and you'll never forget her. Because when the love making is all over, it's up to you to make sure she can look back on your time together with pride and that you can too.

Loving making for woman

Women adores the intimacy the delight of being touched, the loving word, the glow of passion and the security being held. She thrills in the pleasure you take in her, too and in being joined with you physically as he feels herself to be spiritually.

Ont the other hand, if or when she gets fed up, sad or resentful about inability to reach orgasm, you will only know about ti if she trusts you enough to tell. If that occurs, she is paying you the great compliment of her confidence. Return that compliment and do not think in terms of failure, hers or yours. See her orgasm as a bonus to work toward together with loving patient.

Lovemaking for a woman involves heart, mind and body. During her climax she does not ejaculate the way man do. Instead, it's as though the elements of excitement remain glowing within other and she comes down slowly.

Woman and orgasm

The trick to understanding our partner when it comes to orgasms, as in all matters pertaining to sex, is never to forget that she is like all other women only insofar as you are like other men. In important ways, therefore she is unique.

The mind is the primary sex organ, so when making love, try to penetrate hers. You may discover she is one of the many women who do not find orgasms essential to her satisfaction. If so, she has a sensation time with you whether she come or not.

Never say these to your wife

You let the kids get away with murder. "He should realize that he is probably never there when the children misbehave most -during and the day and that she has the responsibility of disciplining them."

Is this mulligatawny soup meant to taste of cloves? "Don't be over-critical of your wife's culinary efforts. Even the simplest recipes can go wrong. You'd know this if you were to dabble in cooking yourself. If you can't do better keep quiet and be thankful that you have a wife who tries hard to keep your stomach happy."

You've lost all your old sex appeal. "Who hasn't? Have you bothered to take a close look at yourself lately?"

You watch too much television. "Viewing helps a woman relax after a hard day's chores."

You never really loved me. "Never make such damning accusations; they may open serious emotional wounds and set the stage for future arguments."

Ten Commandments for happy wife.

Pamela Brown, a London marriage guidance counselor, dug into her case histories and came up with the following which husbands should never say to their wives. Here are the first 5 commandments.

How can yo be too tired. you've been at home with the kids all day while I've been out a to work. "Most men don't appreciate that looking after the home and children can be just as frustrating, stressful and aggravating as a day in the workplace. They should try making the beds, clearing up, preparing meals and getting tech kids bathed for a change."

What did it cost? "A husband who constantly queries the price of things - even when his wife has been clever enough to pick up something that looks expensive but actually wasn't may quickly find that she will retaliate with some super expensive purchases, on the joint account or credit card. Far better to be diplomatic and touch the subject in a more subtle way."

What have you done to your face? "If a wife has spent hours trying to achieve a new look she'll resent begin told she hasn't made a good job of it, simple because it doesn't come up to his expectations."

Sorry we're late, she was ages getting ready. "Even if she was, it's only because she wanted to look her best and to be a credit to her partner."

You're just like your mother. "Feeling towards parents should be a taboo subject. It is dangerous for one partner to feel that the other thinks unfavorably about their second most special person."