Thursday, January 10, 2008

Dare To Date The Most Beautiful Girl ?

You were in a café, sipping your favourite coffee brew and keyboarding away at your lap top. Suddenly, the most beautiful girl in the world walked into the café alone. You couldn’t take your eyes off her and there was a strong desire inside you that you want to walk up to her and buy her a coffee. But the fear got the better of you somehow. You sit rooted to your chair, unable to move. Suddenly, someone walked up to her, introduced himself to her and they struck up a conversation. How you wish you were in that stranger’s shoes instead of sitting here, letting the opportunity passed by.
How many of us have gone through that? Probably 9 out of 10 guys have gone through that. But things are going to change if you are willing to learn. The internet are full of dating information which teaches you everything, or almost everything on how to date a girl. There is nothing wrong with getting some tips on how to date a girl. Seriously, guys need to surf the internet on the mens site for proven dating tips. Their parents didn’t teach them about dating except to tell them how to practice safe sex. And frankly, how many of us guys really go to the site for men to search for effective dating tips and guides? Not many, which is why many guys make a blunder in their first dates or even in their approach to dates.
The modern man is now living in an age of technology and there are so many ways to approach a girl beside the old fashion way of walking up to a girl and asking to buy her a drink. You can use technology to be creative in your approach. Take for example the above case. You are at the café. You probably have a mobile phone. What you can do is called up the nearest florist and request that they send in a bouquet of the most beautiful roses to the girl with a message that says, “ From an avid admirer sitting in front of you”. I bet she will be impressed and will probably invite you over. That is a sure success approach where it is unlikely that she will turn you down. Tell me which girl can refuse a bouquet of fresh roses?
The modern man should be resourceful enough to get information about dating from the site for men. There are plenty of these sites for men on the net. One particularly good site which I find useful for getting dating information is called, “ the modernman.com”. From here, you can learn the secrets on the following topics:
• How to flirt with women
• How to build up your confidence with gorgeous beautiful women
• How to attract beautiful and sexy ladies to you
• How to get your girl that you want
• Learn about the alpha man qualities

The first advice for successful dating is get the right advice from the experts and professional. They know their job well and they won’t sell you something that won’t work. Get this right in the beginning will give you a head start in your dating game. Remember, you have to move fast, once the girl you desire is married to another person, it is opportunity gone forever. Early bird gets the worm. So you have to move fast with confidence and surefire tactical strategy that will move the girl into your arms only.
The second advice is to place yourself in the right environment for meeting girls or women. If one is staying at home all the time, how is it possible for the right girl to meet you? Decide on the type of girls you want to meet and then choose the places where these girls are most likely to go. If you want to meet intelligent, academic oriented ladies, seek them out at the libraries or at the bookstores. These are places where college or universities girls hanged out.
If you want to seek girls with the same interest as you in drinking or social outings, seek them out at the bars, clubs and night spots where they hang out with their girl friends. This is what I mean being in the right place. If you like eating, go to the food court, there are plenty of girls there, some eating by themselves alone. If you like shopping, check out the sales girls at some of the shopping complexes. They are good talkers and it is their duty to approach you first. All you need to do is to show some interest in the products and when she comes over, here is the opportunity to strike up a conversation with her. I find that this is a particularly good practicing ground for striking up conversation with ladies who are strangers and it helps you to get rid of your fear of talking to beautiful strangers. Practice makes perfect and when it comes to the real thing, you will have more confidence to walk up to the girl you are interested.

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