How to keep your man?

Recently, a local newspaper came out with the headline which read like this, 'Association of women formed to take action against mistresses'. A catchy heading. But as you read on, it is about a group of women complaining to the politician to do something about the women in China who lured their husbands away and causing them to have broken families. An impossible task, I would say. Let us be realistic.

First, the women who lured the husbands are in a foreign country, which has their own set of laws regarding marriages. Secondly, having mistresses is not a crime, neither is it wrong in most countrie's cultures. Also, it is difficult to prove that it is the fault of the other women. So there you are, you don't have a strong case to go on here.

A bit of emotional intelligence would perhaps give you a better edge here. Put yourself in the shoes of the other women. What did they do to attract your husband? Figure, dress, grooming and conversations and of course sex. Now, go through this items one at a time. Figure wise, are you slim, attractive? If you are not, do something about it. There are so many slimming centres around. Why not lavish yourself, on your hubby expenses of course, on these slimming centres. Get your self into shape in a month's time and motivate yourself to get result. Next, get some good grooming from the cosmetic counters. Do a makeover. Learn the skills and tricks of a good makeover. Get a new hairstyle but do one that is befitting your age.

Get some new dresses, classy and sexy. And some high heel shoes to go with it. Have a photo shoot out in a professional studio of the new you.

Next, get into internet and be internet savvy. Get to know some new friends, guys but guard your security.

Now you are ready to start on your hubby. Sent him your new look. Set up a dinner just between you and him. Prepared your topics well but not confronting and plan for a welcome back. Two can play the game of seduction from both sides. If you are all these, even if he choose the other woman, I think you still have a good chance with others as well, I mean to start all over again rather than fighting a hopeless fight. And your husband do not like competition, especially if you are beautiful, sexy and classy and very desirable not only to him but to other men.

I think this action is a better solution to the formation of an association of women against mistresses. The above actions make sense, within your control and achievable and it gives you confidence about yourself.

Think back to the first time when your husband courted you. What really attracted him then? Recreate back those features in you. The mistakes with most mothers is that they forgot to take care of their figure, their skin, their hairdo and romantic plans. Men are men and are attracted to this even when they are fathers or grandfathers as a matter of speaking.

So do those things mothers and don't give all your time to your children. You need to give yourself and your husband some time together in order to keep your man to yourself. If your man is happy, you are happy. When both of you are happy, your family is happy. So the end result is, Happy Family.

Applying make-up.

For years, ladies have the dilemma of deciding whether to put on their make up first or to get dressed first. Put on the clothes first, may run the risk of running their fine clothes when the make up accidentally spill over. On the other hands, if you apply your make up first, you have to be extra careful when putting the clothes on. To avoid contacting the make up with the clothes, we sometime have to stretch the collar of our dress to avoid making contact with the make up on our face. What happens if you over stretch your collar? You would have ruined an expensive dress and your evening. And this can occur if you are in a hurry for an important function.

Now and then, you may have to apply foundation sparingly to your jawline in order to ensure that it doesn’t come off on your collar of your blouse or dress. But every make up artist knows that foundation needs to be applied thick and well to hide the flaws and for the make up to hold properly. And this is essential for models who are shooting for commercial under the spot lights of cameras.

What happens when the sweat starts to pour out under the intense heat of the spot lights? Do you avoid blotting your face with the tissue because you know it will rub away your foundation? This is a nagging problems faced by the women in every convincable situations.

Some tips to ladies who haven't try this. Double Wear Stay In Place Makeup.

Double Wear contains:

• hydrogenated rape oil - helps conditions skin to maintain softness and smoothness.
• Vitamin E and BHT provide anti-oxidant protection against environmental pollution.
• Titanium Dioxide is a non-chemical, physical sunscreen to protect against damage from UV exposure.

Most cosmetics manufacturer have come up their own formula to counter this problem. So just hop over to the nearest counter and get free information

The Cleavage Advantage

Ladies who are endowed with naturally large breasts are blessed. With the many brassiere that are available on the market, the push up bras are the most popular. They show the cleavage in a very sexy way, almost in a teasing way.

For those who loves to wear t-shirt, the manufacturer has come up with the seamless t-shirt bra. What this means is that the bra is seamless in such a way that there is no tracing of the brassiere through the t-shirt thin material. Such is the technology of material and design of brassiere.

For those with petite breasts, you have the enhancers, small comfortable slip-ons that you can put in special pockets in the brassiere. These will effectively push up and out your breasts, giving it a fuller cleavage. There is no need for silicon implants. Technology have come a long way.

The cut and design of brassiere have evolved. Push up have full cups, half cups, seamless and they come with various colors . The under wire have also come of age. It is well embedded in a padded comfortable soft material. So Ladies, show your bosoms to the full advantage with the technology of the brassiere.

Silky Smooth

Sex and hair have strong connections. Most men consider ladies with long hair, feminine and sexy. The opposite hold true for the female. They loved bald men. Just take a look at Hollywood Male celebrities. That is why they prefer older men who are usually bald. Also bald men are highly sex men.

Men also prefer silky smooth female legs and arms. Who wants a gorilla to make love to? Not many men will fancy making love to a ‘gorilla’.

There are various technology for removing hair. From the simple method of shaving and waxing to sophisticate of depillary of the hair follicle by electrical gadgets, a woman can have silky smooth legs and arms. Some even extend it to the public area. But these must be done cautiously to avoid any cuts and bleeding.



I found that if you want to shave, apply the ‘Sexsenso Estasy Cream’ will remove any irritation. It provide a smooth shave, moisturizing the skin, deep cleanse the skin pores and leaves a protective film of oil for a radiant shine and against dehydration.

Making Sensuous Scents

For the modern, sophisticated woman who craves an enticing and captivating scent, she must wear the eau de parfum which will bring out the epitome of her feminine tenderness.

Scent works on the senses of smell. Scent triggers certain hormones to be released from the various glands, especially the pituitary gland. For example, How does the male knows that the female is in a heat ? Through the release of hormones and scent, of course.

A spray of parfum will leaves one feeling glamorous, luxurious and delectable, building her confidence to a new level. It also creates a body language of her own.

And for the man? When a lady walk by with a strong swift of classical elegant and captivating fragrance, who could help not turning his head to look at her? That is the power of the scents, to attract, to lure and to captivate. And the ultimate result is still sex and love.

Sex Training

If friends were to asked you, ‘where did you learn about sex?’, the most likely answer is definitely not from your parents. It is incredible that with the higher education, super syllabus, that a lot of people still have to learn about the birds and the bees from books,friends, television or even sometimes, the sex workers.

In this age of innovation and adaptation, there is really no school of training for sex. There is training for almost every kind of skills but no sex training. Incredible but true.

Sex is still a 'taboo' topic among parents. Even in this modern age, parents are still uneasy to talk about sex with their teenage children. How many mummys or daddys actually sit down and discuss this topic with their teenage sons or daughters. Not likely. So where did you get your training? From friends or friends who introduce you to these 'guest relation' officers.(GRO)

A good 'GRO' will not only do the practical but also impart practical hints and instruct like a coach. That is the reason why some men seek these 'GRO' because they provide excellent service than the wife. Thus a wife must learn from this lesson. In order to keep their men happy, they should be innovative, imaginative and take time to read and search the internet for loving skills. Above all, practise them like the saying, 'practice makes perfect'. Just like the 'GROs', they have to know the latest sex secrets and knowhow. They experiment with them, and practise them with every client they service, improving their skills every time.

The men enjoyed them, but won’t dare to tell their spouse how to do it for fear that the cat is out of the bag. So really, the onus is on the women to find out the skills in making love and only than will you be able to make your man a very happy man.

The Game of Sex

If one approaches sex as a game, then it is a win and lose situation. This is true in a paid for sex situation. The female will try her best to arouse the male, and draw out his precious chi by bringing him to ecstasy climax. Once the man let go of his control and climax uncontrollably (sowing his wild oats sparingly), the female feel a sense of conquerance over the male. The victory is won by the female while the male lay exhausted, flat out.

The game of sex has resulted in a spin off in electronic gadgets for sex. The vibrators come in all sizes and shapes. Lingerie manufacturers came up innovative designs in all colors and shapes. It also spin off in new sex games such as S & M with a huge array of tools and gadgets.

The game of sex also resulted in video games on sex, overtaking the more traditional strip poker game. Electronic games have come of age, so why not sex games?

The ultimate of the game of sex is to get one of the partner to climax while the other one watches. The one who lay flat down exhausted is obviously the loser.

In a more gruesome game of sex of the Praying Mantis, the male Mantis will be beheaded by the female Mantis after reaching climax. Eeeeh, what a way to finish off. Unfortunately for the Male Mantis, once it is engaged in sexual climax, he will be so weak and giddy (hynoptised by the female mantis) that he is not able to dislodge himself from the grip of the female Mantis.

The Secrets of Tantric Love and Sex

In my earlier post about the chemistry of love and sex, I touched on the mixing of emotions of love and sex. Both must be present in order to realise its full potential for intelligence, both emotional and intelligence quotient. Highly intelligent men usually stick to one woman and even if they have a mistress, they will also only have one. It is not wise to engage in the act of sex with too many females without the act of love interwined into it. Sex without love is only physical and does not provoke the mind to higher senses.

Tantric love comes from the ancient traditional Tantra which was practised in parts of India and Tibet about 5,000 years ago. The real Tantra practice involves yogic postures and breathing techniques, meditation, chanting and sexual yoga for the purpose of attaining a state of spiritual enlightenment. If one practise Tantric love making, it will give you a sense of ecstasy in your ultimate orgasm but yet is quite different from the normal sexual activity. Tantra sex embodies that all sexual relationship contain the essential element of merging and union for a higher spiritual experience.

The Eyes Never Lies

Someone told me that if you covered up the whole face except the eyes, you can tell the character of the person by looking at the eyes. Yes, the eyes reveal a lot of things. Medically, the iris reveals the health of a person inside her body. The retina in the eyeball reveals the onset of diabetes. The ancient Egyptians can tell whether a pregnant woman is carrying a boy or girl by looking at the white of the eyes.

But the eyes really make face stands out. Take away the eyes and the beauty is gone. That is why the blind always wear fashionable black spectacles. Take a look at Steve Wonder with his famous signature black spectacles. There is class, style and fashion about black spectables.

For those who are blessed with beautiful eyes, highlight them out. There are now so much cosmetics for the eyes. Colorful eye shadows in a multitude of colors, shimmering effects with star dusts, eyeliners and even false eye lashes. They really make your eyes look different and uplift your face in a different light.



Eyes, like any part of the face, can communicate without you saying a word. A twinkle of the eye can convey a message across to the person sitting opposite to you to signal you are approachable. A glare will keep your unwelcome visitor scurrying away. But a sexy eyes with blue eye shadow and long curvy eyelashes will mesmerised your admirer to the ground.



Eyeshadow in the right tone, enhances the eyes. The daring will experiment with bold, strong and brightly colored hues. They are fun and your eyes will remain the focus of attention. Texture has a striking effect on your eye make up. Do try experimenting with eye shadows in cream and powder formulas.

Tattoo For Thought

The other day, as I was watching a friend getting a back massage suddenly, the thought of Angelina Jolie's (Tomb Raider) tattoo back came to mind. She has tattoo on her back done by the monks in Tibet. The tattoo she had consist of sacred ancient scripts that are supposed to protect her from dangers. Yeap, maybe I should get one too. Ouch! I hate needles. I do admire beautiful tattoo's though. Only too chicken to get one for myself. Did try the sticker tattoo once but didn't last. My man loves. Turns him on.

Tattoo is an ancient art. On the island of Borneo, deep in the interior rainforests, the ethnic natives practised the arts of tattooing on their body. The designs of the tattoo have hidden meanings and they depicts the ranking of the wearer, much like the stars on the General's uniform.

I supposed the tattoo on the back of a female body depicts her endurance ability of the needles. There is a sense of power and mystery about a girl who has a tattoo back. Some times the tattoo depicts ownership or belonging to a club or organization. Whatever it is , a tattoo is permanent and is quite difficult to remove. Should you decide to tattoo, please do your homework and get a well trained tattooist. A well done tattoo on a female's back can be sexy and intriguing to the onlookers.

The Tattoo Back

Hi, everyone,

The other day, I was watching my friend giving a back massage on her girlfriend. And I was wondering about the tattoo back of Angelina Jolie (Tomb Raider). She has tattoo on her back done by the monks in Tibet. The tattoo she had consist of sacred ancient scripts that are supposed to protect her from dangers. Interesting.

Tattoo is an ancient art. On the island of Borneo, deep in the interior rainforests, the ethnic natives practised the arts of tattooing on their body. The designs of the tattoo have hidden meanings and they depicts the ranking of the wearer, much like the stars on the General's uniform.

I supposed the tattoo on the back of a female body depicts her endurance ability of the needles. There is a sense of power and mystery about a girl who has a tattoo back. Some times the tattoo depicts ownership or belonging to a club or organization. Whatever it is , a tattoo is permanent and is quite difficult to remove. Should you decide to tattoo, please do your homework and get a well trained tattooist. A well done tattoo on a female's back can be sexy and intriguing to the onlookers.

Sexy Leggy Legs

Me again , the sexy author on sexy parts.

Long leggy legs that are well shaped are an asset to any lady. In china today, the ladies went to the extreme of having their legs lengthened surgically by doctors. Others say if you do a lot of jumping such as basketball, skipping or trampolining, you will grow very long legs. Maybe there is some truth in it, since jumping will pump more blood to the area and not only that, along with the blood comes calcium and the outdoor sunshine will convert some vitamin D for the body, all of which augurs well for long sexy legs.

Some men are turn on by legs, beautiful legs. Beautiful legs in sensuous stockings and complemented with stiletto heel shoes are a knock out. Legs, stockings and shoes are the three complements for each other. And when you got all three, don't hide in away in jeans. Show off in the evergreen mini-skirt or micro mini skirt. You get those heads turning 360 degrees. However, do drive from place to place. It's too risky to walk around alone. One be outrageously sexy and titillating but do be sensible about safety and security. Have your bodyguard around you if you can. Now that is style and class.

Sexy Tattoo Butts

Hi , it is me again,

Who haven't seen a tattoo butts? You must be going around with your eyes shut if you tell me you haven't seen one. That is the fashion. Otherwise, why do you think Levis came out with low low cut jeans and the lingerie came out with micro mini low low low cut panties? To show off their tattoo of course! You think the ladies went through all those pain with the needles for nothing? After all these troubles they went through, like the pain they endured for hours, not to say the money they coughed out, they are going to cover them up with high cut jeans?

Why do you think health gadgets manufacturers are churning out mechanical horses and vibrating belts? To improve your buttocks and to shape them up. They knew that sexy butts are a turned on for men. And to cape off with some tattoo, it adds that sexiness which not only turned heads but also horsemen will fall off also.

I was once eating my 'ang tao chan loot' desert in the market, when all of sudden, a tall, slim beautiful gorgeous lady walk pass by in her 4 inches high heels. And you bet, she was wearing a low low cut jeans with a beautifully design tattoo. My male friends couldn't help but google their eyes at those butts of hers. Wish my eyes are camera lenses at that moment, which I could have the pictures loaded up here already. Well too bad.

The Chemistry of Sex and Love

The Chemistry of love and sex or sex and love ,is a very old subject. Which one come first huh? Love or sex first Huh? I think in today's modern age, everything must test drive first loh! Well, we have to be open minded and moved with the age as well.

In the Tao of Love, there is a detail study of love and sex in the Red Chamber in ancient China. The Emperor has hundreds of concubines and he also has two special sexologists to advise him. The female sexologist will advise him on the ways and the techniques of sex and love. The male sexologist will advise him on his chi energy during sexual intercourse and how to conserve his chi energy to reserve it for the other waiting concubines. Both sexologists are knowledgeable in the ways of replenishing the sex chi energy. The methods ranged from the invisible to the physical herbal potions and aphrodiasics.

Even in Napoleon Hill's famous book (Think and Grow Rich), there is a section on the power of sex and love. The right use of sex and love will make a genius out of both man and woman. Somehow the aura of the combined energies of both male and female can be channeled into useful creations, provided you know how. In most cases, the potent energy of the male is expended carelessly and in an exhaustive way, draining the potential creative chi energy of the male in an unproductive way. This is because the male has not learn to tame the chi energy at its sexual height.

The modern sexologists are more concerned with erectile dysfunction than about the sexual energy. We will share some of this in the next post.