Why women fake orgasm?

Men are reputed to have logical brains, right? So obviously you've already noticed that these statistics indicate two things about female sexuality.
1. Whoever she is, she must have faked it on occasion.
2. This indicates that perhaps orgasms don't play quite the same urgent role in her sex life as they do in yours.

If you saw 'When Harry met Sally', you know how brilliantly a woman can fake an orgasm. But more important than how she fakes it is why she fakes it. Well, first of all, there's a genuine kind of release indicating out a climax, similar to the way you can get a charge out of watching your team score a point without racing out onto the field and scoring one yourself. Also, she knows that for you a sex act is incomplete unless it leads to an orgasm, and if she fails to have one, you may think you've failed to give it to her. In other words, she fakes to spare your feelings.

Yes, it has been known for her to fake an orgasm because she's dead tired and knows you won't give up until you think she's had one. Or maybe she feels somehow ashamed of her inability to have one genuinely. Finally, she may pretend because she's afraid that if she doesn't make yo think you're the greatest, you'll leave and find some other girl who does.

What men still don't know about SEX! -Part 2

There is an argument, however, that to do this risks stripping them of their magic. As a general rule, men find depictions of sexual acts arousing and women get off on words. So when you two get to that lovely point of trust where fantasies can be exchanged remember that a few spicy suggestions whispered into her ear will add to her excitement.

You're also not the only ones to masturbate. most women do it, even when their sex lives are going great. women tend to masturbate to scenarios of their own invention, while you guys prefer to use something material, generally porn videos or magazines. but unless your partner likes porn too, and can share it with you, be careful about keeping it around. Chances are, if she comes across it in your closet or under the bed, she will feel extremely threatened and take it as evidence that she's not enough for you. After all, when she masturbates especially if yours is a passionate, new relationship - the image she probably has in mind is of you.

Also, there's always the likelihood that she is insecure about her desirability and obsessed by what she imagines to be her physical defects- those little blemished and imperfection so that are simply airbrushed out in your videos and magazines. And finally, whenever she thinks, she may not emotionally accept the ability you men have to separate sex from romantic love in a manner not many women share.

What men still don't know about SEX! -Part 1

When it comes to sex, men are definitely improving. After all, in grandpa's day, the average man never dreamed a woman could enjoy making love and the average woman never dreamed she should.

Today, of course, both sexes do, because pleasure shared is pleasure doubled and it's still further increased for the modern man who knows he's giving as good as he's getting. All a man needs to become a superb lover is some technique, a little knowledge, a bit of imagination and a lot of tender willingness. Most important, the good lover knows there is always more to learn and the great lover is the man who enjoys the lessons!

There is more potential for playfulness in sex than in any other adult activity. But sex is not a competitive sport. Men who run out of their corners at the sound of the bell, flailing and panting as though they have a title to defend are not the lovers women find irresistible.

So keep athleticism in the gym, guys. If you think she's going to be wildly turned on by being twisted into contortions, then you certainly have the wrong idea about inventive lovemaking. You are not the only ones, gentlemen, to fantasies during sex, even when it's with someone you're crazy about. And if your relationship mellows, you may find it exciting to tell each other your fantasies though not necessarily to act them out.

to be continue........

Sensual pleasures

Sensual - just what does this word mean to you? According to the dictionary, something sensual gives pleasure to a person's physical senses and feelings rather than to their mind or soul. And a sensual experience does not necessarily have to end in bed! A genre of music, food, a special person or even a particular physical activity can stir your senses and makes you want to purr or grrr...and give you pleasurable moments. So what turns people on.....

Some say that a massage is something that gives the ultimate pleasure. When getting a massage, shut your eyes and enjoy the manual manipulation. The feeling is unbelievably sensual.

Others say soaking in an aromatic hot bath, inhaling the relaxing scent of lavender and surrounded by the soothing flames of scented candles.

Ladies may love the soft satin sheets and silk lingerie.