Turn off the TV - You may see your loved one everyday but that doesn't mean you know hi, Take time everyday to talk, really talk. Not just smatterings of conversation like "pass the sugar", and "the curry's good", but discuss things that interest both of you. Talk about work, relatives, the kids, hopes and dreams. Talking builds intimacy after all you only talk to people you like. To get him talking, turn off the TV and radio and ban storybooks and newspapers from the dinning table. No one likes long drawn out silences. Trust me, he'll talk with some encouragement from you.Make an effort - Remember how giddy headed he used to make you feel when he called you six times a day and sent you love notes? Now, many years on, you're wondering where did all that romance go? Everyone wants the easy life and men are no exception. Once handsome knight won the hand of fairlady, his job was done and he decided to hand up his armor. Your duty will be to make sure that armor doesn't get too rusty. Drop a handy hint or two when you feel neglected. Take a good look at yourself as well. Are you getting too busy for him? Are you still doing the things he loves? If you've neglected giving him a massage for years, now's the time to redeem yourself. For all you know, once you start trying he'll get into the mood of things and start spoiling you too!
Whenever you do, don't hem him in and make a demand. Men don't like feeling like the carpet's gong out from under their feet. Instead, gently point him in the right direction. Make it seem as though it's his idea. And when he finally gets you that platinum bracelet you've being hinting at for so long". Instead, thank him effusively. Reward him with an extra passionate lovemaking session. Next, he'll be wondering,"why didn't I do this sooner?"
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