Is he treating you more than just friends?

Here are signs that you should look out for:

He buys you excessively expensive or personal presents like jewelery or lingerie.

Every time you ask after his wife or kids, he changes the subject or just ignores the query.

He gives you compliments that are excessively persona and make you uncomfortable.

He touches you in a way you don't expect your normal guy friends to touch you. There is a world of difference between a big, warm hug and a seductive, lingering hand on your thigh.

He constantly calls you or wants to spend time with you.

He suggests you meet out all the time and doesn't include his wife or your boyfriend on any of these dates.

He doesn't tell his wife that he is meeting up with you.

He calls you and talks to you on the phone till midnight.

He gives you flowers and have meals with you after work.

He is very concern and helpful in your personal problem.

He tries to meet up with you as often as a normal guy friends would.

How to get ahead with the opposite sex

In a dating game, when you are competing with some other suitors, how do you get ahead of the pack? The way to to a girl's heart can be many. One sure way is to show that you are caring, really sincerely caring. Care about her health, care about her appearance, care about her safety, care about her fear and you will have won her heart above the rest. These are things that the girls really look for in a man besides his physical appearance. Of course, there are differences in what a woman look for and what a young girl look for. A woman look for security, so make sure you are wealthy enough to provide her with a house, car and ready to give her security for a family. For a young girl, give her lots of beautiful clothes, shoes, cosmetics and change her handphone now and then. In all these, the man must have the finance to outlast the others suitors or else, you better start looking for more money. Money is still the key to the dating game.